Thursday, February 9, 2012

4 Ways to Not Removed from Friends List on Facebook

Facebook has a feature to find out who your friends who cut ties with you. Then, you suddenly realize, there are a few of your friends are missing from your friend list. In fact, they include people that you will respect him, you know. Why is it that they resign as a friend? What's wrong with you?Chances are, you have violated the unwritten rules of friendship on Facebook. Studies conducted in the U.S. Arizona State University recently compared the perceptions of students regarding friendships in the real world with the world of Facebook. Group discussion that followed 44 19-24 year old students to discuss the rules for success in the social networking friends. Well, the following four rules are considered as the most important thing to keep in touch with friends or acquaintances on Facebook.Always respond to messages and "post"-an friendsWhen a person is to update the status or posting text or photographs, he would hoped his friends would comment on his post. Especially if he sent a personal message in your inbox. If you do not reply to the message, comment, or comment back, it will make you just like just your friends in cyberspace, not a real friend. If you indeed are busy, send a short message that you will contact him later.Do not tarnish a friend's photoNot everyone was pleased to see tagging photos, which reveal themselves in an embarrassing position or appearance. So, you need to think twice before to tag a photo of a friend who could potentially make him feel ashamed. Moreover, these new friends find out later, after other people in the list of friends on Facebook know first."If you try to project yourself as a very professional, and is trying to get a job, while your friends post something embarrassing about you, it means your friend is tarnishing your reputation," said Erin Bryant, a researcher who is also a doctoral candidate in Arizona State University.Send the message "happy birthday"When a friend's birthday, his usual Facebook Wall will be flooded with congratulations from friends. Posts greeting you might just be one of the dozens or hundreds of congratulations, and your friend may not have time to read and reply to these words one by one. However, sending a birthday is an opportunity to keep the "friendship" with a friend on Facebook who are rarely in touch with you. Is not that why we have a Facebook account to keep in touch with friends instead?"We rarely use Facebook with a casual acquaintance, but what we do is actually much more important. That's one small effort to make connections with them," added Bryant.Resist the urge to vent frustrationThe problem with a friend should not be carried into social networking. Moreover, then you send a message that should only be known to your friends through your own wall. There's no one, especially your business colleagues or clients, who want to read your deepest heart's content, and wickedly impressed. The bad side of yourself you will be seen clearly, and this creates an unprofessional impression. Keep your anger in a personal journal, not in public places such as the wall message on Facebook!

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